DJ

Engels, Spaans

If Myers-Briggs is accurate, I’m an INFJ with INTJ tendencies. I’m not shy and consider myself an outgoing introvert. But when I want to recharge my batteries, I prefer being with just a few people.

While in my world there are no gods (except for perhaps the god of traffic, who has a truly nasty, but instructive, sense of humor), I support the right to believe as you choose. However, if you’re a fundamentalist anything, including a fundamentalist atheist, pass me by, please.

Because I don’t believe in divine intervention, an afterlife or karma, I do believe that we humans have a duty to each other to seek justice, fairness and equality for everyone. If there is a wrong, do what you can to change it. If there is a need, fill it. No god is going to do it for us. Offer comfort and compassion always - simple kindness ripples outward in unseen ways, finding those who need it.

My job is logic driven, very detail oriented and not in the least creative. It’s in my non-working time that I indulge in the creative things that recharge me. I read, practice the harp, cook, and write lyrics. I wrote some lyrics several years ago for a song that was recorded and made it onto the Americana chart. It was even played in Sweden - go figure. I’m working on several other songs at the moment, but I’ve got a time problem. I’ve taken some kilnforming glass classes and am addicted - I love the sound of breaking glass. I have many designs in my head and I’m looking forward to seeing them in real life.

Since my hobbies are solo pursuits, let's come up with some things we can do together. Got any ideas? Also, I'm working to lose weight; help me now and perhaps reap the benefits later.

I’m looking for a man who is educated and wise, kind and compassionate, verbal, has built his own life and wants to share it, has a fully functioning moral compass and a strong back bone, lives a healthy lifestyle, and has a wicked sense of humor. If you are a “special needs” guy, as in all your needs are special at the expense of others, let’s not. The majority of life is spent on the mundane, so I’m looking for a man whose company I so enjoy that even the mundane stuff is fun.

My personal motto is Forward Nevertheless. I can handle what comes my way with a minimum of whinging, but every now and then, loving arms and a welcoming place to lay my head for awhile would be such a comfort.

Stier

Een paar extra kilo's

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Groen

Blank

Nooit getrouwd

Nee

Nee

Haar

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Rood

Geen huisdieren

Nee

Onder 15

Niet Zeker

ik blijf erbij weg

Openlijk een atheïst

VWO

Voltijd

Iets Anders

Alleen

Is het lekker rustig

Nee

Nee

Stil

Gereserveerd, Vriendelijk

Muziek

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Naar een concert gaan

Love during the time of COVID 19 - darned if I know.

Driving a race car

Vriendelijk

Niet religieus

Nooit

My goals for the future are to learn to play as many instruments as I can (sitar or kora would be cool), design and make more kilnformed glass pieces, learn about gardening and aquaponics, become the wisest and most loving human being I can be, understand as much about the human condition as I can and work for its betterment.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk

Documentaires, Drama's, Educatief, Films

Science Fiction, Komedie, Drama, Documentair

Rock, Klassiek, Blues, New Age, Soul, Folk

Nieuws, Fictie, Geschiedenis, Mysterie, Politiek, Science Fiction, Erotica

Gevatheid, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Humor, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

Brains, a sense of humor, kindness, thoughtfulness, perceptiveness