DJ

English, Spanish

If Myers-Briggs is accurate, I’m an INFJ with INTJ tendencies. I’m not shy and consider myself an outgoing introvert. But when I want to recharge my batteries, I prefer being with just a few people.

While in my world there are no gods (except for perhaps the god of traffic, who has a truly nasty, but instructive, sense of humor), I support the right to believe as you choose. However, if you’re a fundamentalist anything, including a fundamentalist atheist, pass me by, please.

Because I don’t believe in divine intervention, an afterlife or karma, I do believe that we humans have a duty to each other to seek justice, fairness and equality for everyone. If there is a wrong, do what you can to change it. If there is a need, fill it. No god is going to do it for us. Offer comfort and compassion always - simple kindness ripples outward in unseen ways, finding those who need it.

My job is logic driven, very detail oriented and not in the least creative. It’s in my non-working time that I indulge in the creative things that recharge me. I read, practice the harp, cook, and write lyrics. I wrote some lyrics several years ago for a song that was recorded and made it onto the Americana chart. It was even played in Sweden - go figure. I’m working on several other songs at the moment, but I’ve got a time problem. I’ve taken some kilnforming glass classes and am addicted - I love the sound of breaking glass. I have many designs in my head and I’m looking forward to seeing them in real life.

Since my hobbies are solo pursuits, let's come up with some things we can do together. Got any ideas? Also, I'm working to lose weight; help me now and perhaps reap the benefits later.

I’m looking for a man who is educated and wise, kind and compassionate, verbal, has built his own life and wants to share it, has a fully functioning moral compass and a strong back bone, lives a healthy lifestyle, and has a wicked sense of humor. If you are a “special needs” guy, as in all your needs are special at the expense of others, let’s not. The majority of life is spent on the mundane, so I’m looking for a man whose company I so enjoy that even the mundane stuff is fun.

My personal motto is Forward Nevertheless. I can handle what comes my way with a minimum of whinging, but every now and then, loving arms and a welcoming place to lay my head for awhile would be such a comfort.

Taurus

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Green

Caucasian

Never Married

No

No

Hair

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Auburn / Red

No pets

No

Under 15

Not sure

I stay away from it

Openly atheist

College Degree

Full-time

Other

Alone

All Is Calm

No

No

Quiet One

Reserved, Friendly

Music

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert

Love during the time of COVID 19 - darned if I know.

Driving a race car

Friendly

Not Religious

Never

Middle Of The Road

My goals for the future are to learn to play as many instruments as I can (sitar or kora would be cool), design and make more kilnformed glass pieces, learn about gardening and aquaponics, become the wisest and most loving human being I can be, understand as much about the human condition as I can and work for its betterment.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies

Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary

Rock, Classical, Blues, New age, Soul, Folk

News, Fiction, History, Mystery, Political, Science Fiction, Erotica

Wit, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Brains, a sense of humor, kindness, thoughtfulness, perceptiveness