Ryan

Engelska, Spanska

I am an atheist, existential, non-consumerist thinker, dreamer, and doer, who is probably spinning his wheels seeking a match on this site. I am, however, putting my beliefs out there to see if there is anyone who shares what I think. I am quite different than most you will ever meet. I have a master's degree in communications, and had been enrolled in two PhD programs in the past, however, a growing lack of faith in the university system has tarnished my idea of the academy. But I am very interested in the growing epidemic of screen time and its effects on early childhood development.

I currently restore 19th century homes, whilst working in hospitality so my daytime hours are free to accomplish said work. I work roughly 80 hours a week, enjoy my free time as a precious commodity, and wish to surround myself with people who understand hard work yields amazing rewards! I am a renaissance man who loves to involve myself in the vast beauty of life. I love jazz, sports, rock music, classical and opera, philosophy, hiking, weight lifting. I try to eat mostly plants and organic, but am not a vegetarian. My health status is great! I am in great shape, don't drink right now (this to get this house fixed up in the time frame I have), but don't care if you do. I feel like I am 30 again!

The first thirty years of my adult life have been spent on the hamster wheel, seeking a life that I now view with disdain. I am emerging out of the fire like the mythical Phoenix, forged into my own understanding of success, redefined, stronger, and more balanced, with humanist goals. I accept everyone at their level, and let everyone be who they want to be. I do not foist my views on anyone, and let everyone live a life of their choosing. I grew up a conservative, however, since the Bush era, conservative social platforms (or lack thereof) became adverse to my comprehension of common sense and empathy, so I changed my political views to meet my values. I am by no means a political zealot, and hope you are not.

My goals are to hide in plain sight, continue working on my career until I have the resources to buy a farm, either here, or abroad, to be an off-grid sustainable community that generates its own hydropower, and teaches children pre-consumerist, or at the very least, pre-smart phone ideals. There is a ton of industrial and preindustrial era technology that is totally viable that is somehow not being taught to our children. I would like to reverse that. Not that contemporary technology is bad. I think we should use the best of the best, not for convenience, but for sustainability.

I seek a salt-of-the-earth woman, who works with her hands, mind, and heart. Who works as hard, or harder than I do. Who understands the true meaning of partnership and loyalty. Someone who is of child rearing age to build a family. I seek someone who wants a true adventure, and doesn't use the word "adventure" as a euphemism for going to the beach or wineries. If this sounds scary to you, very good! Then you are not a match. But, if this sounds like a life worth living, message me.

Vågen

Atletisk

186 cm

Kaukasisk

Separerad

Nej

Ja

Bak

Gråsprängt

Hund

Nej

Universitetsexamen

Hospitality

Mellan 450 000 och 600 000 kronor

Ensam, Med husdjur

Allt är lugnt

Ja - försöker sluta

Nej

Den utstötta

Uppmärksam, Vänlig, Komiker, Mörk, Konstig

Motion, Läsa, Konst & Hantverk, Lärande, Musik, Filmer, Teater, Matlagning, Trädgårdsarbete

Prova nya saker, Bio, Läsa en bok, Gå på konsert, Gå på museum

Coffee and conversation

Traveling abroad

Vänlig, Obskyr, Tramsig

Ateist

Aldrig

Kitschig, Klok, Torr / Sarkastisk, Obskyr, Farsartad, Oanständig

Nyheter, Dokumentärer, Drama, Filmer, Sport

Science Fiction

Rock, Hårdrock, Eletronisk, Klassisk, Jag har spelat in en skiva, Jazz, Industriell, Latino, Soul, Punk

Nyheter, Urgammal litteratur, Självbiografi, Biografi, Klassisk, Komik, Fiktion, Historia, Hem & Trädgård, Humor, Instruerande, Matematik, Musik, Natur, Filiosofi, Politisk, Referens, Poesi, Satir, Vetenskap, Science Fiction, Sport, Teknisk

Building things

Kvickhet, Flirtighet, Spontanitet, Egendomligheter, Djärvhet, Känslighet, Empati, Enorm skicklighet, Humor, Snygga drag, Omtänksamhet, Intelligens

Authenticity

Intimt, Hängivenhet